Outercourse - Non-penetraion

The Joys Of Non-Penetration

There are many reasons that people would want to experience outercourse. I recently had an experience where a lover had an STI infection and didn’t want to have penetration. So we got creative with ways to experience pleasure. For other people they have religious needs to abide by. And others just don’t enjoy the sensation at all. It can also be a sweet novelty to change gears occasionally and do something different.

Frottage, dry humping or outercourse. These are similar names for doing anything that doesn’t involve inserting genitals, fingers, toys into the anus or vagina. Frottage (a French word I love) is the act of rubbing against someone in a sexual way. I personally love to hump or be humped. It has a feeling of desperation and a need unmet. There is a vast scope for people to touch, squeeze, caress, rub and grind on each other. This can be with clothes on or off. 

Another sensual, intimate and exciting outcourse experience is mutual masterbation. This can be either touching your own body or the body of another person. This stimulation can be super sexy and thrilling. We can learn so much from watching another person's self pleasure. This situation can ease the stress of having to perform or reach a certain sex goal. There is endless touch pleasure for people wanting to explore. 

Outcourse can include oral sex and hand sex if thats on the menu. I’m constantly asking people to expand their understanding of ‘sex’. When we use our imaginations there are a wide variety of ways to get turned on. This can help couples to jump out of old grooves into new possibilities. Our bodies are covered in nerve endings that can give us erotic charges. I hope for a world where sex is more than genitals and penetration.