Websites
Wheel of Consent Betty Martin - A world leader in consent and boundaries.
How to play the 3 minute Game (Video) Betty Martin - A game changer activity for a pair to learn about each other and themselves.
Languages of Love With a quick quiz. - Learn about your prefered language of love.
Non Violent Communication Marshall Rosenberg - The most sophisticated communication program created.
More than two Franklin Veaux - A very useful resource for Ethical Non Monogamy.
Ethical and feminist PORN
Erika Lust - Excellent film maker, I highly recommend the XConnfessions series
Dipsea - Short and sexy stories.
Candidia Royale Pay videos
A Four Chambered Heart - Super inclusive and queer friendly
Queerporn.tv - hardcore queer porn videos
Crashpad - Queer porn
Awakenederos - Bridging the worlds of sacred sexuality and Erotica visual art
Lustery - https://lustery.com/ Great ‘homemade porn’
Recommended Books
Come as You Are - The Surprising New Science that Will Transform Your Sex Life by Emily Nagoski
The Ethical Slut: A Practical Guide to Polyamory, Open Relationships & Other Adventures - by Janet W. Hardy and Dossie Easton
More than Two - a Practical Guide to Ethical Polyamory by Franklin Veaux & Eve Rickert
Pleasure Activism- The Politics of Feeling Good by Adrienne Marie Brown
Gender - a Graphic Guide by Meg-John Barker
Queer - a Graphic History Meg-John Barker
Ask : Building Consent Culture an anthology edited by Kitty Stryker
Urban Tantra - Sacred Sex and the 21st Century by Barbara Carrellas
Oh Joy Sex Toy by Erika Moen and Matthew Nolan
Anal Pleasure and Health by Jack Morin
Sex for One by Betty Dodson
Podcasts
My favorite podcasts about relationships, sexuality and bodies.
Get Sex Smart - with Dr Valeria Chuba.
It’s the Meg-John and Justin Podcast - Meg-John Barker and Justin Hancock.
Polyweekly - Cunning Minx - The best podcast about ethical non-monogamy and alternative relationship style.
Relationship alive - Neil Sattin - excellent interviews with world leaders in sex and relationships.
Savage Lovecast - Dan Savage - excellent sex and relationship ‘columnist’.
Sex Out Loud - Tristan Taormino - Excellent podcast about sexuality
The Hook Up - Triple J radio in Australia - I’ve been on this show twice!
Sex with Timaree - Excellent colourful podcast on relationships and sexuality with Dr Timaree Schmit.
Youtube
Excellent TED talk about relationships and sex and reconnection.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=L5rE-Ur9pSI&ab_channel=TED